If there’s one time when Nick and I are likely to argue, it’s when we’re in a kayak. We’ve had our share of disagreements while paddling around Indonesia’s lakes in a dugout canoe, often going in circles instead of a straight line, leading to the usual squabbles like: “Paddle harder!” “Don’t paddle so hard!” “Stop splashing me!” Our daily kayaking trips on Lake Atitlan in Guatemala often involved Nick trying to jump out and nearly tipping over the kayak getting back in, which frustrated me to no end. Another memorable paddling adventure took us from Cape Maclear on Lake Malawi…